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Loving yourself is Loving others

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Is it true that you love other? Do you really believe that your love is for others? Do you know how to love yourself? These questions can be difficult to answer and for me it took years to understand the difference between giving love and receiving love. This phenomena is actually not studied by people. Often we are taught of love through people like our parents or through things like media, such as t.v and radio. But there is a little more to understanding love, it can become a science but for now lets think of the philosophy. What is Love? I could pull out my webster dictionary and tell you what it says in there, but i will just tell you what i've learned it to be in past couple years. To me love is the affection shown of desires that come from within someone. These desires often reflect the want for someone to have the best. Is that really all there is to it though? Im sure some of you readers are shaking your head no, well your right love is so much more complicated. Each

4 Lessons and Thoughts on The Richest Man in Babylon

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Finally done with this book and wanted to talk about it a little. After about 3 weeks of reading i realize now why i was meant to read this book. There are many things in this life one must understand. The first is Love, the second is the understanding of ones self as well as the understanding of life. The last thing is the understanding of economics, or money for that matter. After many week of reading this book I found fours very important lessons. This won't be stated in chronicle oder being that i understood the principles should be just used, and not necessarily in a particular order. Of course feel free to pick up the book at your local book store or check out the Youtube link at the end of this article which has the full book Via Audio. #Working Hard First understanding that working hard is very important and will bring you  the most joy when you understand how to do it. This means don't have to work hard all your life, but you do need to understand that without

5 Reasons Why You're not close to God

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First off let me tell you this is not a blog writing to change your perspective on God. Also this is not a blog to tell how to get closer to God, thats done by you and your journey through life. I am here though to write about the reasons that are keeping you from truly connecting to God. So lets begin. #1 You have not found yourself You may think this is simple, and that you just need to learn more or have more experiences. But actually thats not the case at all, when it comes to finding yourself it take diligent work to understand your mentality and why you do certain things versus others. This means you may need someone on this journey with you to point out these things that you don't see in yourself, but that others do. #2 You often Rely on others to tell you who you are This one is a little tricky because you may think this is talking about finding yourself still and yes it does have to do with it. But really i have to say that it goes deeper than that, it goes to

Simplicity At It's Best!!

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I used to live in an area in Florida called south side, but I like to call it Church Street, sense that was the street where I was staying. On the other hand people at school and round the rest of the town called it the “black side of town”.   The place was at first a sort of poetic town where cows where eating grass and land was large and never ending. I was around 12 years old when I moved there. This was a delicate time of life, moving from many different cities and now I was here in the middle of nowhere. This though was a chance to start to learn about myself, for the most part it was a simple time. I have to say reflecting on the time now it baffles me how much humbleness was within myself. That time truly showed me what it meant to be yourself, it separates everything I am now to a simple view of life, a view to which was a luxury, not flashy luxury but a mundane pure understanding of “I” luxury. This wasn’t about the house, not about the jewelry, but it was about the

Shake up your life: How we changed our own perspective

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It all started late in April, 2017, scanning through a social media site called Facebook I saw this face, someone maybe I recognized. Coming to my attention was the mutual friend that we shared, one of my best friend. I concluded I may know her i preceded to add her as a friend. Not to long later she answers asking me if she knew me once i realized we did not know each other i plainly replied i guess not you resembled someone i thought i knew but it wasn't the case. Later she replies and it all went off from there. I was sitting down panicking thinking i don't speak french how will i communicate with this women. I begin to ask my friends for help, i had a friend from Tunisia i was hoping that he could help with the french but he was way to busy with his own life to help me with my dilemma. So i decided to take matters into my own hand and just went ahead and replied in english to my stunning affect she replied with ease. From that day on my life was about to change. T

New thoughts, New Feelings

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To be in the arms of the right one. What does it feel like? It feels like it is the right thing to do and the right place to be. The place where you belong to, the only skin you should lay down your skin on. Like your soul is not yours anymore but it is in safe hands. Those hands you get addicted to, those hands you cannot live without. Those hands caressing your face, your identity, your naked and true self. To be in the arms of the right one, feels like you could die in peace at this moment. Like you have found the true meaning of life.Like you would stay in those arms for the rest of the day, the week and your life. Your skin on his skin, his skin on yours, a tear of joy, a tear of fear, a tear of pain and pleasure. Joy because you are finally happy, joy because God answered your prayers, joy because you finally know what love is. Joy because by finding him, you have found yourself and what you really want in life. Fear because you are afraid to lose that moment, fear because he i